New book on Amazon, Movement to lower age of consent breeds new fight.

            Tonight’s blog is going to be about my feelings, the topic is going to be off base from my own healing and the road I am on to recovery for another topic that has me very angry. It is on the topic of Child Sexual Abuse and the changes that are going on in this country. These are going to be my thoughts because right now I am so angry and bitter that I don’t think I can even think about my own abuse except for the fact I want to run out and protect every child I see.           

If you subscribe to any child abuse web page, follow Twitter or Facebook you might have heard the news that Amazon online book store is now offering and online book called “The Pedophile's Guide to Love and Pleasure”. I can’t believe that there can be any kind of book written like this by someone let alone a company that would actually sell this. The story is being covered by all the major networks including CNN and FOX News and it has become an argument of freedom of speech and press. Many organizations have spent a lot of money to bring Sexual Abuse out into the open, and thanks to them there are more pedophiles being caught and brought to justice today then ever before and signs of abuse are being taught to all professionals who have any contact with the public. This book is nothing but a How to Do book on how to sexually abuse a child in a loving manor so that children will believe that it is acceptable to be in this situation as long as it falls under the umbrella of Love. What this has done is redefine the word Love to include adults who look to have sexual contact with children of very young ages.  

From homeless people on the streets right up to congressmen, more people are being caught and they are being prosecuted however with each arrest someone learns how not to be arrested. In regards to this online book it states, "This is my attempt to make pedophile situations safer for those juveniles that find themselves involved in them, by establishing certain [sic] rules for these adults to follow," a product description reads. "I hope to achieve this by appealing to the better nature of pedosexuals, with hope that their doing so will result in less hatred and perhaps liter sentences should they ever be caught." What fears me is that the mainstream media may be unknowingly playing a major roll through giving more information about countries and how they accept the marriage of young children as low as 12 years old which is beginning to change our own thinking. Just ten years ago you would not hear of so much sexual abuse in the news, now we are finding it is more common in our society then we think. If you look at comments that are made online it is generally the very young under age ten, who when abused, receive the most protest, most support and the most outcry. I honestly feel this is due to the change in the view of society towards sex and the fact that age of maturity and puberty is becoming younger. We now hand out condoms in schools, free pregnancy test for teens, some states have abortions for teens and they are not under any obligation to tell parents. A movement that has been growing in the silent background around the United States is pushing to lower the age of consent to age 12. Think about this, if you combine the movement that believes in this change with this book that will teach Pedophiles how to show love and thus groom children for consent, they will be free to do as they wish with our children without fear of arrest. Do your own search on Yahoo for “lowering the age of consent” and you will be surprised. In an article posted online (http://www.slate.com/id/2174841/) the author talks freely about older people who would be considered Pedophiles would not be prosecuted if the 12 year old was groomed well enough to consent. Take a look at the cases we see on the news the most, teachers, child care workers, family friends or neighbor hood parents which the age of the child is between 13 and 16. This would bring it all down to legal age where we would have fewer arrests and more abuses. There is an online petition to lower the age and release those who were arrested on age only related charges. We would also start to fallow other countries like India where a man is aloud to marry a girl as young as age 12.

My abuse started at age 8 and continued for many years past this, and I often felt I asked for it or it was my problem because I was a boy who reached an erection I must have enjoyed it or something. I am learning different now that it was not the case however in a society like the one proposed above any abuse above the age of 12 would no longer be considered abuse. My god, to even consider my son who is 12 giving his consent to allow an adult to have sexual contact with him is beyond belief. I wonder if any of these people have any idea what could happen to a child’s mind after this consent is given. As they grow older and they start to have regrets or even the pain that may go along with such an age difference could very well become a breeding ground of more PTSD and Major Depression. Using my own beliefs up until now, I felt I may have asked for it or allowed it to happen and yet suffered physical and mental changes could bring such a change to society that the very future of our country could be at risk. And to think, in places were prostitution is legal the amount of children who are runaways who would not understand what they were doing besides some guy is giving them how ever much would be the world to them as they need money and it would be an easy income.

My anger is strong over this, in fact my inner child is angry and fearful for all the children that can and would be affected. Some articles talks about how other countries are considering the same age change. So we have a new fight on our hands and this battle is going to be a hard fight to protect our children. It is going to become a legal world wide epidemic that could be fueled by crushes on teachers, teenage hormonal changes, pre-teens wanting to become like older siblings or just trying to fit in. The doors to a past like the 60’s where love and peace were the main goal of the young will be reborn and relived, except with a whole new age group of players. The bottom line, the allowance of this book or other books that may follow along with this movement that is real could very well bring our country into a new era, an era where parents will have even less control over their children and allow the ability of predators to prey on the young legally. The fight has begun and we need every person on board for this one. Until Next Time….

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